Monday, April 13, 2015

How Checking Your Spelling Can Save Your Future

Honestly i enjoyed coming up with that title :)

As individuals we have defined Life according to what other individuals outline is important.
Example: 'We go to school because someone made us believe that it will get us a job. On the other hand, some individuals will now tell you that school will award you the knowledge to compete in the market'.
The things that matter to us have been defined by someone. Question now is; What have you adopted to work for you?
Do you live through Life believing what you believe because you heard something from someone?

Our lives are at the Mercy of the people we connect to. With that said: How then do you control and maintain your relationships?
Now to our title: 'How Checking Your Spelling Can Save Your Future'. Not to advertise anyone but Microsoft Word a feature called Spelled Check. We use this feature to ensure that whatever we post is acceptable by the set standards of society.

The Education System has adopted this phenomena, You will be told to check your work after writing your exam. By checking your work, you are simply saying that you want to make sure that whatever you submit for marking will be accepted by the examiner. I hope you smiling right about now because you realize where i'm going.

When replying someone on Social Media, do you read through your message before sending? By reading through it, you are simply saying that you ensure that whatever you send will be accepted by the other individual on the other line.
'Acceptable' here means adequate for purpose. This goes on to say that whatever you reply has to be in line with the purpose of your relationship with that individual.

Example; The purpose of your relationship with your Parent is that they provide for you whenever you are in need. The way you reply them when they talk to you should be adequate to the purpose of their relation to you. This is different from your Partner. When your partner is angry with you, your response should be 'Acceptable'. You may be silent and not reply because your response must be adequate for the purpose of your relationship. By choosing to be silent, you have understood the purpose of your relation, being so you have chosen to give an 'Acceptable' response.

Before you reply someone, think about what you are about to say. Run the statement twice in your mind before saying it. The first words you think of saying are inspired by your emotions. Breath in, then Breath Out. Thereafter you can be sure that you will give an 'Acceptable' response.

**The ideology of 'Checking Your Spelling' can save your future in that you consider the other person before saying anything to them**